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Following Jesus or following the rules? (LIFE in the Comments – Link Up #8)

Follow the Rules

If you’ve been reading my blog you’ll know I’m blogging through Kyle Idleman’s book “Not a Fan.”  (You can catch up here.) Today I’m discussing the fourth question in diagnosing fandom: are you more focused on the outside than the inside?

Are you a Sadducee or Pharisee? Are you choosing rules over a relationship? Are you choosing laws over love? Are you choosing guilt over grace?

In other words are you missing what really matters most because you are more focused on the outside than the inside?

Let me share a little example.

Last January we did the Daniel fast as part of a church wide fast. For the entire 21 days I was completely absorbed in the what I could/couldn’t eat. If you ask me what I got out of it, I wouldn’t be able to tell you…other than knowing exactly what you can and can’t eat on the Daniel fast.

This January I was not going to fast. And I was pretty emphatic about it. I was not going to put myself through 21 days of extreme vegan diet. But something our pastor said made me stop and think. He pointed out that the point of the fast wasn’t to get all legalistic about food but to bring you closer to God.

So I fasted again.

And this time it was entirely different.

Yes, I followed the rules…to a point, but it was more about spending time with God than in worrying about what I ate.

And that’s the whole point.

Jesus want to spend time with you…He doesn’t care if you don’t follow every teeny tiny rule of a fast.

Jesus wants you to get closer to Him…He doesn’t care if you eat at the Pancake Pantry in Gatlinburg because you went on vacation in the middle of your fast. (Note to self: do not start a fast if you’re going on vacation!)

Jesus wants you to mature in your walk with Him…He doesn’t care if you have to substitute organic blue corn chips for matzos because there isn’t a kosher section to be found anywhere in Pigeon Forge. Grits…yes…matzos…no.

A fan worries about what they’re eating…a follower chases after Jesus.

Blessings!

Mindy

 

 

 

 

What are you being legalistic about in your life? Is there anything else on your heart today? Join the conversation below so we can all share in the blessing!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/htoddbowman Todd Bowman

    I think buttermilk pancakes (or any pancakes) from the Pancake Pantry are as close to Manna as we can come on earth. Gather them up to eat thru ought the day!
    ILY!!!
    T

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Ha! Ha! Manna indeed! Although we ate our fill and then went back to gathering nuts and berries. ;) ILYT!

  • Mia

    Dear Mindy
    Yes,dear one, it is all about grace. The moment we add a bit of law to the mixture, then we are cut off from our dear Lord Jesus! Thank you for this post! Do we get to link again today? Would love too!
    Much love
    Mia

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Hey Mia! You are right about the law. That is one of the main reasons Israel had a hard time following Jesus…He took their law and told them it was empty. They were more concerned about their laws than the love of the Messiah.

      Have a blessed day dear friend!

  • Auntie Em Stanton

    Thanks for hosting, Mindy, and for the reminder about GRACE not LAW! (Mary not Martha– this is a challenge for me!)

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Ha! Ha! Em I have to kick myself when I start putting on Martha’s clothes! I struggle with that as well. Have a blessed day!

  • http://susanstilwell.com/ Susan Rinehart Stilwell

    Ahh yes, Mindy. The sad (and crazy) thing is that we can take any spiritual discipline and turn it into an idol! Fasting, Bible study, scripture memorization, service… I think that’s at the heart of Pharisee-ism. The act is more important than the relationship. So sad.

    I continue to enjoy your book review!

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      You are exactly right Susan and I never really thought of it that way! And it is very sad. Thanks you so much for always sharing! You have an awesome way of bringing the point home! :)

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  • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

    Oh my Mary…it is indeed. We feel good because we get to check things off our list and put Jesus in a little box and then we go on with our lives. I have to remind myself daily, hourly, that my Jesus does not belong in a box.

    Thanks for joining in today! Blessings to you, too!

  • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

    Hey Marissa!

    Just like we want to keep Jesus in a box, we want to keep our hearts there as well. We want to keep all the ugliness, hurt, etc. at bay. It is so much easier to go through our checklist and wipe the counters clean than face the dirt in the corners. I am guilty as all the rest in putting things like this off as long as possible. I am thankful that God uses things like this to poke me to take that deeper look!

    I will definitely stop by and link up! :) Blessings!

  • http://www.amylearns.com/ Amy Tilson

    So true! It’s so easy to get caught up in rules and appearance, especially in the spiritual. Thanks for this reminder. I really need to read that book! PS. If you are ever on your way to Gatlinburg again you MUST let me know. :)

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      You got that right Amy! Yes…you would thoroughly enjoy the book! And as for Gatlinburg…we loved it so much we will be there again this summer! I will definitely let you know!

      • http://www.amylearns.com/ Amy Tilson

        Excellent!! It’s only 2 hours from home and my parents go down all the time- season tickets to Dollywood!

        • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

          That is so cool! I will let you know for sure! :-)

  • http://jasonandkelliwoodford.blogspot.com/ kelli woodford

    this one sure hits home for me.
    in fact, it’s the reason i started blogging in the first place. i was seeing a God so much bigger, so much more gracious and loving and forgiving than what i was hearing about at church. and i just *had* to find Him. had to find others who saw what i saw.
    and oh boy, did i! :)

    i always love it when the truth is doing what He does best — setting free.
    thanks for a great post.

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Kelli, that is the awesome thing about this community! And I am so glad you were able to find out how much more wonderful our God is!

      Thank you for sharing and blessing me today. This is the reason I love to blog…hearing stories like yours. :)

  • http://canigetanotherbottleofwhine.blogspot.com/ Kate Hall

    Ha! Legalism is my personal history. The last three years have been a whirlwind of God’s grace in my life – actually, longer than that, but I think I was fighting it, being as legalistic as I possibly could until I saw that it didn’t work. I still struggle with it, but I’m finding myself more and more leaning into God’s grace rather than running from Him b/c I think he has certain expectations of me which I didn’t meet and therefore He’s angry at me – he knows when I’m going to fail before I do.

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Sometimes Kate I swear we must have been twins separated at birth! I’m right there with you. I’m so glad we are both learning when we mess up the most is when we need Him the most. It’s also the time when He loves us just the same! :)

  • Gertrude Nonterah

    You know what Mindy ? We were fasting in our church too and our leadership came to the same conclusion. Fasting really is not about starving yourself for a number of hours just so we can feel good about making a “sacrifice” (which of course is what legalism would have us do). The emphasis is on spending time with the Lord more which is WAY more important than simply going on a hunger strike. Haha !

    Thanks for sharing this ! God bless you.

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Indeed Gertrude! In fact I’ve found that I concentrate the LEAST when my stomach is growling louder than the thoughts in my head. A quiet room along with a full stomach and I can focus much more on my conversation with God.
      Thank you and have a blessed day!