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One of many or your One and Only? (LIFE in the Comments – Link Up #7)

One of many or One and Only?

 

If you’ve been reading my blog you’ll know I’m blogging through Kyle Idleman’s book “Not a Fan.”  (You can catch up here.) Today I’m discussing the third question in diagnosing fandom: is Jesus One of many or your One and Only?

Of all the chapters diagnosing fandom this is one that will really make you stop and “smell the roses” so to speak. 

In Luke 14:25-27 Jesus tells the crowds that they need to loose their family, their spouse and even their selves if they want to be His disciple.

Up to this point He had people following Him for all sorts of reasons. I can imagine that after this speech He whittled the crowd down a bit. The fans would have called it quits while the followers would have continued on for the long haul.

What would you have done?

Would you have been one of the fans that packed up and went back home or would you have followed Him to the ends of the earth?

Kyle asks some really good questions that might help you decide:

  1. For what do you sacrifice your money?
  2. When you’re hurt where do you go for comfort?
  3. What disappoints or frustrates you the most?
  4. What is it that really gets you excited?

Your answers to these questions can show you where your heart truly lies and whether you are a fan or a follower.

“Following Jesus means following Him alone. Fan’s don’t want to put Jesus on the throne of their hearts. Instead they keep a couch on their heart and, at the most, give Jesus a cushion. He’s asked to share the space. But Jesus has made it clear to this crowd He’s not interested in sharing your heart.” Kyle Idelman

Yeah…answering the questions above were a real eye opener for me…and I’m sure for you as well!

Blessings!

Mindy

 

 

 

If following Jesus cost you everything would it still be worth it? Is there anything else on year heart today? Comment below and share in the blessing!

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  • Mia

    Dear Mindy
    Yes, dear friend, this is an eye opener. I know I have to write against the evils of religion for replacing the love relationship with our Lord Jesus. For a while I didn’t heed the Lord’s gentle nudgings, but yesterday a brother in Jesus from Germany spoke to me about this for the Lord has put this on his heart as well. I only wanted to write for link-up parties and enjoy nice fellowship with the ladies, but now I have to obey and start my research again. You have confirmed this as well today for me through these questions from Kyle! I really enjoy your blogging on this book so much. It challenges me and that is a good thing.
    Much love to you my friend
    Mia

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Mia, I love how God speaks to us through different things. And when He speaks to us about the same thing from different directions…well, that is when we REALLY need to pay attention! Thank you so much for sharing this with me and confirming for me that I need to keep doing what I’m doing!
      xoxo
      Mindy

  • http://susanstilwell.com/ Susan Rinehart Stilwell

    Those questions are convicting, Mindy, and good things to renew our minds with. I had a deep hurt when I was in Belize last October. All I could think about was wanting to get home to my office so I could be alone with the Lord.
    Have a great weekend!

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      They are indeed, Susan! Sometimes being alone with Him is all the solace we need! Have a wonderful weekend!

  • http://www.facebook.com/heather.m.meyer.9 Heather Markle Meyer

    Everything is His to begin with, not to mention the fact that in the end if we only have Him, that really is everything.

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      That is so true Heather! :)

  • Sara Blevins

    I am sticking with Jesus to the end! There is no going back for me, regardless the circumstances. Thank you for being led to share.

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Amen Sara! I’m right there with you! :)

  • http://wholehearted-home.blogspot.com/ Judith

    Thank you for the linkup and also for such a good post!! I copied the four questions (yes, wrote them out the old-fashioned way) and clipped them to Evernote!

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Yay Judith! Sometimes writing the old fashioned way is very soothing and really helps to get the cobwebs out. :)

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  • http://www.facebook.com/ronda.roethle.5 Ronda Roethle

    Loved the post! These are definitely questions to ponder. Thanks for the thought provoking post and for hosting the link-up. God bless and have a wonderful week!

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Thank you Ronda! Have a great weekend! :)

  • http://chaosandcoffee-amanda.blogspot.com/ Amanda @ Chaos & Coffee

    Hi Mindy! :) Hope you’re doing well! I appreciate your thoughts and questions each week as you blog through this book. They really make me think. I have often thought about Jesus asking those disciples to leave everything behind and follow Him. I think about our missionaries who have left friends and family to go places like Afghanistan, India, and China to spread the gospel and share the love of Christ. I reflect on my own life and actions, too. Your questions definitely make me examine my own heart and motives, and I thank you for the discussion and the link-up! Have a blessed day :)

    • http://www.newequus.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

      Thank you Amanda! There were just so many things that this book brought to light for me I was compelled to share! I’m glad you are getting as much benefit as I did! Have a blessed weekend!

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